Each year since the girls were born, I dutifully printed the family photos, addressed 100+ envelopes, stamped, sealed and sent the cards. I know many people treasure them and some people trash them. I’m giving myself permission to pass this year. And the beauty is that I’m ok with that decision. No guilt, just a deep sigh that my list will be one item shorter. I pinkie swear promise I will use the freed up time to snuggle with my family and just be. Total. Truth.